10. You have to be okay with being the “villain” in someone else’s story
One of the toughest aspects of self-respect is acknowledging that you will always encounter individuals who do not understand—or respect—the lines you draw in the sand. In the moment you no longer allow yourself to be “nice” and start demanding what you need, some people will label you as selfish, distant, or difficult. But you have to accept that as well.
If you are constantly trying to convince those who criticize your decisions to accept your point of view, you are essentially allowing them to have control over whether you act in accordance with your best judgment.
Respect is not something you go out seeking or begging for. It is the standard you set through what you are willing to tolerate and what you are not. Once you understand that your time and effort have value, you are no longer bargaining with people who act as if theirs does not. Over time, everything in your life—from friendships to relationships and even your work—begins to align with the standards you have set.
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